Slice of Life #28-Saying Goodbye

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In 2004, Chris and I adopted a cat from the Edison shelter, a kill shelter near Rutgers, and brought him home.  He lived in Chris’ college house, in what was essentially a large closet, until Chris graduated and got his first apartment.  He was a loudmouth and loved meowing at the other cats who lived in the house.  He also loved to jump from the bed to the dresser when he wasn’t curling up under the covers. But his favorite thing in the world was sitting at the window and chattering at the squirrels outside.

In 2005 Chris moved into an apartment and Guinness discovered that the world was larger than one room. He loved his catnip and could chase a laser pointer all day.  Stairs were a new concept but the sliding glass door to the balcony was the best new aspect of life. He would stare out the door and windows for hours.

In 2007 we bought the condo and suddenly Guinness had two floors to explore!  The world outside the sliding glass doors was exciting and full of life.  Chattering at the birds and squirrels would sometimes take up his whole day.  When we came home from work we would find Guinness sleeping on our bed or the guest bed.  Sometimes he was curled up in the office chair.  If he could jump onto it he would sleep on it.

In 2009 we brought home Dublin.  We weren’t sure how Guinness would react but he put Dublin in his place right away.  They played together and argued over toys and Guinness always won.  He loved sitting on the half wall and dangling his tail just slightly out of reach of Dublin.  He’d race up and down the stairs, enticing Dublin to chase him and then he’d jump out of reach.

In 2011 we did it again and brought home Bailey.  She thought she was going to be the boss, and she was.  Well, she was the boss of Dublin.  Guinness put her in her place with a few well-placed swipes of his paw.  Those kitty claws didn’t mess around!  Bailey loved to chase Guinness and he loved to be chased.

Guinness moved again in 2014.  He was not thrilled but he adjusted better than I expected.  He never really got used to the new layout…..a ranch was not his first choice.  But he did love the windows and he especially loved the bird feeders.  Most of my bird feeders are right outside the window where he liked to sleep and he’d watch them for hours.  This past summer I added a bird feeder to the kitchen window and he would stalk the birds who were brave enough to swoop in and steal a few seeds.  He also snuck out of the house a few times after we moved but he always ran to the porch within a few minutes of getting outside.  He was an indoor cat, through and through.

When we lost Bailey Guinness took it harder than I expected.  But over the past few weeks he was doing great.  He was playing with Navan a bit and eating like a horse.  He was definitely a senior kitty but after losing some weight after Bailey’s death he was gaining some back and playing on his cat tree again.

Today Guinness suffered what was most likely a stroke or an aneurysm.  I came home from school to find him in bad shape, even though he was perfectly fine when I left in the morning.  My amazing vet saw him immediately but there was nothing any of us could do.  I spent a few minutes with him saying goodbye and then it was over.

We’ve said goodbye to two pets in the past few months.  Bailey suffered from lymphoma so we had time to say goodbye.  It was impossibly hard and I never wanted to go through that again. Guinness’s death was very sudden but that did not make it any easier.  I’m going to miss him begging for food while we eat dinner and walking on the back of the couch while we watch TV.

 

 

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Slice of Life #27

That is the smile of a very happy Aussie. Tonight Chris took Navan to puppy class so Dublin and I hung out. We played frisbee in the backyard for a bit and I grabbed them “soccer” ball. Dublin used to love playing “soccer” but it’s been ages since he’s done it. That’s likely due to the fact that a puppy is always around to take the ball away. Bailey never met Dublin play with her toys and the Chuck-it ball in the picture was hers. 

It was nice to see Dublin playing and having fun tonight. I still stop and look for Bailey all the time so seeing her favorite toys back in the mix was bittersweet but it also made me smile. She loved her ball and while she didn’t love sharing I think she would want them to be played with. 

Dublin and I spent about a half hour playing outside in the yard. He was tired and happy when we finished. Navan and Chris got home just a few minutes later and now both dogs are cuddling on the couch. 

Slice of Life #26

Weekends go by way too fast. I think it’s because I always try to do too much and before I know it the two days have flown by. 

Sunday’s are always busy because I work in the morning. From 9-11am I teach an SAT prep class. Today I ran an information session about the summer class from 11am-12pm so I did not get home until about 12:30pm. Chris had a race in Philly this morning (where he came in 1st place!) but he beat me home. So when I walked in he made a quick sandwich and then we headed out to walk to dogs. 

We had a great walk at the park down the street and did 2 miles in about 45 minutes. It was way colder than yesterday, though! By 2:45pm we were home and I quickly headed out to do food shopping for the week. That took another hour. When I got home I took care of the cat while he played with Chris (he’s been having a tough time since Bailey died). 

I caught the end of the first basketball game while cleaning and then watched the second game whole cooking dinner and getting some recipes ready for the week ahead. What an incredible game! And I’m currently in first place in one of my pools!

Now it’s 10:45pm. Chris and I watched a few episodes of Parks and Rec and an episode of The OA. Now I’m catching up on The Zoo on Animal Planet and getting ready for bed. 

Somehow there are still two weeks left before spring break! 

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Slice of Life # 25

Beauty and the Beast is my favorite Disney movie so I’ve been looking forward to the live-action remake for months.  In addition, I love Emma Watson.  Hermione and Belle would clearly be friends if they ever met so it makes sense that the same actress would play them, right?

Chris bought us tickets to see the movie about a week and a half ago and I’ve been looking forward to it ever since.  I didn’t read any in-depth reviews this week and I’ve been trying to avoid most of the articles about the movie.  I walked into the theater today ready to be blown away.

I was not disappointed.

Disney did a fantastic job this time around.  The casting was spot-on.  Emma Watson, while not the world’s strongest singer, was a perfect Belle and I was perfectly content with her voice.  Luke Evans, who played Gaston, was incredible.  And of course, Josh Gad as LeFou was perfection.  He and Evans had some of the best lines in film.

This version filled in some of the plot holes in the animated version (why did no one know about the Prince?  Why was no one looking for all of those people who turned into furniture?!) and added a few new songs.  I was a bit disappointed that they played “Home”, from the Broadway production, in the background a few times but never performed it.  However, they may have made up for it with the production value of “Gaston” and “Be Our Guest”!

If you have not seen the movie yet I highly recommend it.  It’s a great addition to the canon.

Slice of Life #24

How are there still two more weeks until spring break? I feel I’ve been saying something similar for weeks! Every weekend I think, “At lesser spring break is almost here.”  Except it’s not! 

I’m exhausted and more than ready for break. I’m so exhausted that I almost forgot to do this post. Thank goodness for iPhone alarms! I’ve got a reminder set for 10:15 every night so that I don’t skip an entry. It’s saved my butt more than a handful of times. 

Tonight, after picking up the dogs and doing a 2 mile walk at the park with the pack, I headed back to school for Teacher’s Pet. Teacher’s Pet is an annual event and it’s always a ton of fun. My senior and I didn’t win but we definitely laughed a lot! 

On the way home I stopped to pick up a broccoli roll (no meat on Fridays during Lent). After eating my dinner I collapsed On the couch, turned on March Madness, and didn’t move until my Slice of Life alarm went off. And now I will get back to the game and relaxing. 

Is it spring break yet?

Slice of Life #23- Migraine

I can count on one hand how many times I’ve left school early due to illness over the past twelve years. But today was one of those days. 

The plague seems to be going around school so I was a little worried when I suddenly felt weird during 3rd period. I brushed it off because I felt fine all morning prior to that. The plague going around has been knocking out kids and teachers for 3-5 days at a time so I tried not to think about it. I’d felt fine just minutes before!

Well that was dumb. Within an hour I was incapacitated by blinding pain in my head, overcome by dizziness, nauseous from the pain, and barely able to see straight. It was so bad that I couldn’t get my plans together for the afternoon and had to rely on my emergency plans. 

I made it home, let the dogs out (because puppies don’t care if you are sick when nature calls), and locked myself in a dark room with them. I slept for three hours and woke up feeling foggy but better. The dogs were fabulous and just cuddled on the bed while I slept. 

I’m feeling better now, though I’m still sensitive to bright lights and I can feel the echo of a headache in my head.  I’ve only gotten a migraine once before, years ago, so it didn’t even cross my mind as the cause of my illness until I was functioning as a human again. I’m hoping I don’t experience it again anytime soon.